You’re a seeker—someone who knows there’s more to life than staying busy, striving harder, or repeating the same old patterns. You’ve grown and accomplished much, but lately there’s a restlessness stirring beneath the surface. A quiet longing for something deeper, truer, more whole. You sense it’s time to stop circling the same terrain and begin a more courageous journey.
This work isn’t self-indulgent. It’s sacred. It’s the brave act of meeting yourself with honesty and compassion, of listening to the wisdom of your own soul. It’s the shift from performance to presence, from distraction to depth, from fragmentation to integration. It’s about remembering who you really are—and discovering how to live from that place with freedom and grace.
As a spiritual coach, I walk alongside seekers in seasons of change and transition. Through the wisdom of the embodied Enneagram, the practice of spiritual direction, the guidance of grief work, twelve steps and other deep wells, I help you move past limiting patterns, awaken to your authentic self, and live with grounded purpose. Together, we create space for clarity, compassion, and transformation—so you can embody the life you were created to live.
If you feel that tug for more—for authenticity, for alignment, for the courage to step into your truest self—I’d be honored to brave the wilderness and walk alongside. you into new ways of being.
Aaron Manes
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Learn More About Spiritual Direction & Somatic Enneagram Work
Who Needs
A Spiritual Director?
For many people, hearing God in the midst of their daily life is difficult. If you are ready to commit some intentional time to really listening then you are ready for spiritual direction. (Read More)
Learn About The Enneagram Of Transformation?
As you explore the Enneagram, you'll embark on a fascinating journey of self-discovery and transformation. It offers a gateway to self-awareness, allowing you to peel back the layers and uncover the patterns and habits that may be holding you back from living a truly fulfilling life. (Read More)
Beginning Somatic
Enneagram Work
The undercurrent patterns of life (aka your Enneagram type) are not meant to explain who you are. This is where the transformational work can begin. By working with the Marion Gilbert Method of the Somatic Enneagram we can wake up to the true life we really want to live.
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What Do You Work With During Spiritual Direction?
The beginning of a relationship with a new spiritual director is often not as simple as setting an appointment and it is a match.
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What Happens During
Spiritual Direction?
Spiritual Direction is an intentional time set apart to listen to and for God. Spiritual Direction is not denominational or a part of any one specific faith…
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What Is The Somatic Enneagram?
The Enneagram is based on the idea that every person has a core personality type that is determined by their deepest motivations and fears. This type influences the way we think, feel, and behave in the world. By understanding our type, we can gain greater insight into our own inner workings.
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What’s In The Store?
The Head Type Mug celebrates the Enneagram’s thinking triad — those who seek understanding, insight, and wisdom in a world that doesn’t always make sense. Whether you’re pouring your first cup of coffee or reflecting over an evening tea, this mug invites you to pause, breathe, and let your mind find stillness.
With a sleek, glossy finish and vivid Enneagram design, it’s as thoughtful and enduring as the questions that guide you.
Details
• Ceramic construction
• Size: 11 oz
• Glossy finish with bold Enneagram symbol
• Microwave and dishwasher safe
• Lead and BPA-free
• Blank product sourced from China
Perfect for those who lead with curiosity and intellect — or anyone learning to trust both the head and the heart.
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
This Spiritual Gangster crop top blends mindfulness with edge, reminding you that strength and softness can coexist. With clean, modern typography, it’s more than a shirt — it’s a statement about living awake and unapologetically yourself.
Made from premium cotton and cut for everyday comfort, this crop top moves with you — from yoga mat to coffee run to sunset hangs with friends.
Details
• 100% combed cotton
• Fabric weight: 5.1 oz/yd² (173 g/m²)
• Relaxed fit, dropped shoulders
• Cropped length for a modern silhouette
• Preshrunk for lasting shape
• Blank product sourced from top-quality suppliers
Perfect for those who walk the mindful path with style — grounded, grateful, and a little bit gangster.
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
Age restrictions: For adults
EU Warranty: 2 years
Other compliance information: Meets the flammability, lead, cadmium, phthalates and formaldehyde level requirements.
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The Mystic Tumbler is adorned with subtle mystical symbols—an invitation to live with wonder, curiosity, and awareness.
• 12 oz (355 ml)
• Tumbler size: 4.7″ × 3.5″ (12 cm × 9 cm)
• High grade stainless steel
• Double-wall vacuum seal
• Curved, unique shape
Disclaimers:
• Not dishwasher or microwave safe. Hand-wash only.
• The Wine Tumbler lid is designed to minimize spills but is not fully leak-proof. Some liquid may escape through the sip opening or edges if tipped.
But give us a moment to talk about the Enneagram and something shifts: curiosity wakes up, insight surfaces, and connection becomes meaningful.
This tee celebrates that beautiful tension—introverted at heart, but always willing to go deep where it matters.
• 100% combed and ring-spun cotton (Heather colors contain polyester)
• Fabric weight: 4.2 oz./yd.² (142 g/m²)
• Pre-shrunk fabric
• Side-seamed construction
• Shoulder-to-shoulder taping
• Blank product sourced from Nicaragua, Mexico, Honduras, or the US
Disclaimer: The fabric is slightly sheer and may appear see-through, especially in lighter colors or under certain lighting conditions.
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
There’s a line from scripture that has stayed with me for most of my life: “now we see through a glass dimly…”
For years, I interpreted that as a limitation—like clarity was something always just out of reach. Something reserved for later. Maybe even something I wouldn’t fully understand until the end of my life.